Hey everybody. How are you guys doing? In case you're wondering, I'm doing great. Thank you :)
Okay.
My best friend was crying last night. I hugged her. She was crying so damn hard on my shoulder because of her boyfriend. They started dating 3 or 4 months ago, I think. And suddenly, her boyfriend started to become a total asshole to her. He stop calling her babe. He didn't reply when she said "I love you". He didn't feel excited on the phone like he used to when she called him. He didn't really reply to her messages anymore. She send this long cute text messages to him but all he can reply was "okay" and "thanks" and "take care". And he is starting to be very busy with work and his friends. She didn't know where he went. He didn't even want to meet her when she asked him to. The worst part is he post a picture of him and another women online. He didn't appreciates her after all the things she did for him.
What a total shit jerk motherfucker son of a bitch! (Sorry for swearing.)
My best friend keeps saying "What did I ever do to him?" and "I love him. I miss the old him." all night long. I didn't know what to say. I was holding my tears up. I hugged her and tell her, "Everything's gonna be alright, it's okay maybe he was not meant for you. There's still plenty of guys out there who's worth your tears, who's not gonna break your heart, who's gonna be loyal to you, okay? It's okay baby, it's okay."
I can't stand to watch her crying to bed every night. I was so mad and upset. I feel like slapping that guy with a chair that made of steel. I'm so gonna do that if I met him! But, he's lucky I didn't even know him. He should be thanking god for that.
Okay, here's some advice you might wanna use when you're in long-distance relationship :
#1, Asked him a simple questions like, "How he was doing?" "What is new in his life currently?" "What's happening? etc. and watch how he replied your texts. His feelings depends on how he replied your text. Is he sounds excited or happy or boring or he doesn't want to talk about it or he takes ages to replied to your text or the worst he does not reply at all. But, he might be moody at the time so don't get all worried all of the sudden, okay? Asked him if he is alright or is anything wrong happened. But (here's another but!), remember he can't be moody all the time right? ;)
#2, Tell him, you love him. There's a scale of how he would reply, it is goes from I love you more, I love you too, I love you, love you, haha okay, ok, see ya, *no reply*
#3, Call him, talk like tomorrow is the end of the world and see how he responds.
#4, Send him cute or supportive text messages everyday. See if he does the same thing back.
#5, Lastly, You will know if something wrong happens in your relationship. Like, he rarely text you, he rarely call, he was busy, friends are more important than you, you don't know where the fuck he is, he will gives you tons of excuses, he doesn't do the cute little things to you like he used to and etc.
Hope this might helps. Although you know I suck at giving advices. LOL xD
Have a great day everyone.
Love,
NE :)
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